Dustin R. Benham thought for sure last week he was going to get locked up in a federal penitentiary.
The sentencing recommendation for his role in a meth lab operation in Alabama was 12 to 18 months.
Today, he's under house arrest on a six-month term and then will serve three years probation for unlawful possession of chemicals that could be made into a controlled substance. He also must pay more than $4,000 in restitution.
Benham said a few days after his sentencing that an outpouring of support from friends and family and his own statements to the judge about wanting to move forward with his life seemed to have an impact on the judge's decision.
Getting busted on Nov. 12 at the home of Kenneth Mosholder changed his life and set it in a more positive direction, Benham said.
Shortly after that, he returned to a job he once had at the Pizza Pantry in Corfu, successfully completed a drug treatment program and reconciled with his parents, family and friends.
“I’m happy that I was there," Benham said. "I can’t say I’m 100 percent happy about what happened, but I was ruining my life. If I hadn’t been there, it might not have been until I was 30 or even 50 before I realized I wasn’t going anywhere.”
Now, Benham wants to go from being a "meth cook," as he put it, to a kitchen cook.
According to Pizza Pantry owner Bev Snyder, Benham has a natural talent in the kitchen, and he's matured suddenly.
“I see a difference from when he was here before," Snyder said. "I’m not sure if it’s just that he’s older or what he’s been through, but you could just see he’s more interested in the business and how it runs and cares for how it runs rather than just collecting a paycheck.”
Shortly after his arrest, Benham said he sat down and talked with his father about drugs and said he didn't think he had a drug problem, but a problem with priorities -- making drugs too much of a priority.
His father told him he should re-evaluate that position and look at some of the things he had done in the previous couple of years.
“I realized that if I didn’t have a problem with drugs, then I was a real asshole, and I thought, I’m not that person," Benham said. "I’m not an asshole. It was the drugs.”
As his life moves forward, Benham is hoping people will look past his days of drug involvment. Most importantly, he wants to clear his family's name. He doesn't want the name Benham associated with meth, either for the sake of his parents or if he's ever fortunate enough to have children, for his past to reflect poorly on them.
“I don’t want my kids to have a hard life because their father was me," Benham said.
He then added, “Tell people, everybody has a story. No matter how bad it may seem, it doesn’t mean they’re a bad person. Some people can change.”
I am SO PROUD OF YOU DUSTIN!
I am SO PROUD OF YOU DUSTIN! Me and him where in a similar boat with a drug and legal problem's. It was the best past of my life but the worst i learned so much and grew remarkably! I could not have said it better. Everyone treats you like your past but in fact you can change. When you do it is the best feeling in the world. WAY TO GO DUSTIN!!!
Dustin was a great guy and
Dustin was a great guy and still is. I went to school with him, he used to be one of my best friends in elementary school and we used to be across the street neighbors. I am so glad to see that his life has turned around! You are making a lot of people proud Dustin!!
Chelsea
Good for you Mr. Benham. I
Good for you Mr. Benham. I don't know you, but I wish you well. We all make mistakes, it's part of being human, it's how you handle dealing with your screw-ups that truly matters. Great attitude and I hope telling your story not only helps you but speaks to someone else and helps them to change their life direction as well.
Praying for you Mr. Benham! A
Praying for you Mr. Benham! A turn around like that takes a lot of work every day. Remember to rely on God as you make your transformation! :) All the best!
I wish there were more
I wish there were more stories like this one.... good for you Dustin, I hope you continue to do well and I hope others learn that your past doesn't define your future.
I hope one of the things that
I hope one of the things that you take away from all of this is, that you sit down and have a talk with your kids, BEFORE they get into trouble. Your mistakes can lead to a trouble free life for your children.
Best of luck to you.
There are many more stories
There are many more stories like this, Rachel. I have seen it on 20/20 or one of those shows and in our own community. People have been in worse situations and turned it around. Unfortunately people are out there looking for something and then they find drugs. Drugs like meth are instant addictions. Sometimes it takes serious trouble to wake people up and start reprioritizing their life. Good people fall into bad situations, they just gotta have support and faith to crawl back to their feet. Praise be to God for carrying Dustin, and thanks to his family and friends. Keep up the good works Dustin!
I wasn't saying that this is
I wasn't saying that this is a unique story. But more often than not, people don't choose to do what Dustin did. I know there are other stories, I was simply saying I wish more people would take this route than already do and don't choose to blame others or fall into worse trouble.
Dustin volunteered to have
Dustin volunteered to have his story told.
I don't want to promise that I'll write up everybody's story, but I'll certainly consider any.
Dustin's story is a little more unique because the original arrests were such a big deal. I thought people might appreciate at least some bit of follow up.
Any word on what's happening
Any word on what's happening with the woman charged? I think her name is Denise Montgomery? I hope that she has a similar story.
That case is still pending, I
That case is still pending, I believe.
I've heard a little chatter that she's doing well, but don't know for sure. Perhaps after her case is resolved, she'll want to tell her story.
Keep up the good work
Keep up the good work Dustin...Now if most ppl are helped instead of imprisoned...can save the taxpayer lots of money...less money towards prisons more towards something more positive...but noooo....lol...